I look to everyday life experiences for lessons that shape me. My flying dress photo shoot was a bucket list item for me, and no exception to the rule! I definitely learned much from this encounter. While in Los Cabos I finally got my chance to make this dream a reality.
You probably know that I had this whole idea planned out in my mind ahead of time. It needed to be perfect, so I had set all of these high expectations for myself. I planned what I’d do with my hair, my attire right on down to the earrings, I had even thought through the poses in my head. Guess what??? As usual, nothing goes exactly as planned. The beach where we did the shoot was remote… in fact it’s location is a secret for many… and it wasn’t easy getting to it. I literally had to hike in heels to reach it. Keep in mind it’s like 92 degrees outside and the heat is beaming, so the sweat begin melting away my makeup. Then we finally arrive and I learned very quickly that I wasn’t cut out for a career in modeling… 😂 The session took hours and about 200 takes later we had some decent shots!
When it was time to review the proofs I noticed something. The best photos have heart! They are raw and capture what’s happening in real time… The candid portraits, although far from perfect, were the most beautiful! They reminded me of how I really felt in that moment of time. They helped me relive those precious seconds of life. The real lesson here was that to land those unique, candid shots, I had to let go of everything!
It was in those moments when I wasn’t trying too hard to impress, and was just being my true self, that I photographed the best. I stopped trying to get the perfect shot, let go of all insecurities, and gave myself permission to be adventurous… I didn’t fear being different or unlike the gorgeous models you find in the latest fashion magazines. I found my confidence, tried different angles to see which would catch me in the best light and form, and went with the flow. I became “one with the dress”! What good advice for both personal and professional journeys…
🖤 Embrace difference!
🖤 Work with what you’ve got!
🖤 Move with confidence even if unsure!
🖤 Let go of insecurities and just do it!
🖤 Don’t over-plan everything, be flexible!
🖤 If something’s not working; try a new angle!
🖤 Never give up! Nothing worth it is easy!
what company did your your Los Cabos flying dress shoot?